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That Thing Called Life

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Walking on the "Road less Travelled"

I guess I am addressing two categories of people through this post. One - who are still in college and confused about what they have to do in life and Two - who have completed college and are still wondering what they are doing with their life!
It's sad that our youngistaan is utterly confused and wandering here and there without any direction. If you ask them "dude! You're a mechanical guy, why are you sitting in infosys campus drive?" He'll reply - "yaar, I just need a job. I want to earn money". He'll join that company, will be fascinated by the amazing glass building and stellar hostels of the MNC and when he'll be asked to do Java training, things would change into a nightmare for him. The moral of the story is that there's no point in blindly following others, you MUST identify what your passion is. 
I had job offers from MNC's. They used to call me every now and then to join them. But I didn't. I didn't join them because huge glass buildings don't fascinate me. Because what I will have there is a small cubicle. What I will have is a small role in a big company! And what will they consider me as? Just another "trainee". 

The point is, that I am not against MNC's. There are people who love telecom and like the idea of a stable job with Ericsson. It's great! Go Join. But if you love being your boss and are willing to chase your dreams with extreme passion, you're bound to become an Entrepreneur. It is said that if you are an Entrepreneur, you're the CEO, the HR Manager and the peon too. You're no more the "babu" sitting on the chair all day.

What does it take to become a successful Entrepreneur? 

It is passion passion and passion! You got to have big dreams and the ability to chase them with passion. 
Another quote - "Passion is the most potent fuel for your dreams". That's it, you ought to keep yourself fueled up all the time. I joined a regular job for like, 2 months. And, I was bored like hell! Your boss comes and assigns work, you finish it and submit. Done! Where are the challenges? Where is the growth? Where is the learning? They told me that i was too eager to climb up the ladder. 
I told them, this is what Entrepreneurship is all about and signed my resignation letter.
I want to learn, each and every moment! Grow, each and every moment! That's what makes an entrepreneur. You MUST be willing and eager to learn.

 As Steve Jobs says " STAY HUNGRY, STAY FOOLISH" . 

What is the first step? 

Have you ever rode a bicycle? The first move is the most difficult, isn't it? The first step towards Entrepreneurship requires the maximum courage. First of all, be ready to be scrutinized by your parents, family and neighbors. When you announce that you don't want to work for a company, you want to own a company! They'll say that you're mad! It's alright. Everyone used to call Einstein mad. Everyone who dares to be different is called mad in the initial days. In the initial stage, COURAGE is on the essentials. You MUST be driven towards your goal, no matter what! You will have to face new challenges every day. And you have to face them with a smile. 
Don't stop BELIEVING! You just have to BELIEVE in yourself and the thing is done.

When I used to go for interviews, whoever used to interview me used to get surprised and impressed. Soon, I started to think that I am smarter than all the people who have interviewed me. Then I thought that hey, I don't deserve a small cubicle in a big company. I deserve something big and I WILL achieve it, no matter what! I took the first step, the second and I am still on the struggling stage. Still, I am happier, richer and better off than my friends who followed the crowd. And, I will NEVER stop trying. :)

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Get a life

I pity those who live their life without any thought,belief, values and motive..They keep chasing things which can make them look and sound cool..they chase money, they chase attention..Rarely do they understand that they can never be "cool" for everyone, they are cool among one group of people, uncool among the other.. It is always better to follow your heart than trying to adjust yourself to the society's norms..because they are going to hate you anyways..if you're good, they'll be jealous..if you're not, they'll see down upon you.Try to earn respect, not attention. Wearing the most fashionable clothes and talking in the most "cool" way won't make you a good human being. You will get attention of similar people. You'll attract more attention seekers. But, they will stop giving you attention as soon as you become "uncool" for them. It's your grey matter that truly matters. Your knowledge and talent is going to take you a long way, not the attention of some vain attention seekers. I smile at those who say "How can you read books in your free time?"or "why don't you chill?Why do you read and write such heavy stuff?" . I seriously pity them. When I asked a classmate of mine to develop a hobby, she answered "yar tujhe hobby bana kar kaunsi naukri mil gayi?" . Is there nothing beyond a "naukri"? Everybody has talents, why don't spend your time constructively?She says "I get bored at home all day". All of you have passed your CBSE exams..why don't teach your siblings?
They laugh at me for writing such articles. "Yaar ,why don't you chill" .. is what I get to hear. "Dude, if you have a life, stand for something" is what I say. It's such a pity that people while away their life by just "going with the flow". You shape your life, each and every moment of it. . If you love dancing, dance..if you love painting, paint. If you love classical dancing, do that. Don't be embarrassed of some stupid group of people who have nothing better to do. You won't get their attention, but you'll earn respect from some people whose opinion truly matters. I have always had respect for artists. They deserve respect. People know them because of their talent. They earn it.. That's what I try to do. Read, gain knowledge, write, learn. That's what everyone should do. Learn, love what you do. Doing a 9 to 5 job and posting "cool" statuses is not a life. It's called not using what talents you possess. And they tell me to "get a life"? 
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