I wish it was easy to decide whether to listen to the heart or the mind. It's never easy for me. In most of the situations, I feel as if a battle is going on inside me. It's very hard to decide. And, in most of the situations, my heart overpowers the brain.
I don't understand why, even though I know what is better for me, I decide in favour of my heart irrespective of the decision of the mind.
I guess it's very hard to gather the courage to listen to the mind. It's a weakness, obviously, to let the heart overpower the mind. I never get the courage to fight the tears, to fight with my heart. I guess, I am too afraid of misery. Maybe, it's because I have'nt experienced much bad times in life, Or maybe I haven't had much bad times in life because I never had the courage to listen to my mind, and take risks.
I have always taken the easier path, I was always afraid of crying. But, sometimes, the situations are inevitable. They are not in my control, and I have to face the misery. Still, I don't have the courage to fight the tears, I search for the easiest way to escape. A way to escape the sadness. But, they just follow.
Whenever, I pray to god, I never ask him for happiness, I ask him to give me the courage to fight the hardships, to take the decisions from my mind, which are wiser, and not a way to escape misery. Because, anyhow, it will follow. Like, wise people have always been saying:
"JITNA HUM DUKH SE DOOR BHAAGTE HAIN, WO UTNA HI HUMAARE PEECHE AATA HAI"
I hear these lines often, from many people, but I could never follow its morale. Because, when I ask my heart, it refuses.
well, this problem is very common amaong our generation. we belive whatever we think is right and we do that, but ironically it is not dat happening...let me gv an example...one of friends introduced to to her friends and asked me that she needs to complete her project as soon as possible and i should help her out...she required an IP project even i was doing the same thing, my mind said i should refuse as it would b a compition among me n dat gal but my heart said that no , i must give her that project...n i gave her....and you will be shocked to know that gal just wanted a project which she can modify on her own she took my project and made much better than mine n the teacher gave her more grades n i was asked to make a new project as teacher said i copied her project.......so now i belive we should listen to our mind..but it doesnt mean we dnt value our heart..actually we should make decions by comparing both perspectives....
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